On my Hand than meeting You!

For the last 6 years, I was online trying to date, was interested in local guys in Hargeysa.

The online dating culture doesn’t exist here at all, whenever I log into a dating site, it shows me small number of users which isnt more than 5 men, or sometimes none.

Hargeisa has a big number of gay men “as I’ve seen or told by some friends”, but I wonder how do they all connect, what kind of gaydar do they use to meet and date. 

The last 3 months, I dedicated 3 hours everyday “sometimes morning, afternoons, late at night” to chat with men and see if they are willing to meet, it was like chating with one person, but with different name, same chating style, same phrasings, and always looking for a quick reliefe, detailed sexual erotic conversations! Without even asking for Cam2cam, some kind of Cum and run!

And that’s it, and after sometime they will always make an excuse about being scared to meet someone because they are afriad to be exposed.

What do you think about this?

"As he Said"

We started chating, it was our first date after we were chating for 3 weeks, I was so happy to find this guy online, we used to have long discussions about things in this city, he was cool.

Then it was the valentines day, he suggested to meet him and have a movie night, it was a blind date with someone you know already, but the physical form he is going to show up with will always be different from whats in mind, that wasn’t important I was so into seeing this person I was bonding with virtually!

We met at a cafe, we talked about many things for the first time, we span 7 hours together; and he had this idea which was about the definition of being homosexual, he didn’t like me saying us gays, or that gay; he had a long experience in the scene in Europe and he traveled to the US, the term gay takes the sexuality to a different way, which is like creating a new gender, rather than a male or female, “not about Transgender” 3rd gender doesn’t exist “As he said”.

The whole differentiation the western media is booming about is turning into a commercialized movement, which is going to be more used for TV materials, educational material, and creating new products and new lifestyle for the person to feel different and have more different needs, which is going to create materialism “As he said”.

People have different values and lifestyles around the world, and this presented homosexuals lifestyle package cant suite everyone around the world, its presented with the form of An American or western package, which cant fit an African, Asian lifestyle “As he said”.

He putted it in a more understandable and beautiful way then I'm writing right now, that discussion gave a pose to a lot of things I was sharing about the lifestyle of homosexuals In Hargeysa “As I Said”.